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Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Symptoms in old age that warrant attention


Often old age comes with problems, and mostly health related. Many a times, we miss out on things that are obvious.

Especially after those youthful days when one had the attitude of ‘come what may’. Here are some old age signs you should not miss out on, and seek immediate medical attention for.

1.Low mood
Due to the many health problems at their age and the on and off aches and pains they experience, we expect a grumpy mood in most elders to be normal. However, that isn’t how it should be.

If you notice your otherwise cheerful parent, elderly relative or neighbor appearing sullen, it’s worth probing further and also seeking medical advice if things remain unchanged for long.

Elders could feel low or depressed due to loneliness, feeling of worthlessness or troubled relationships at home. Often these aspects are overlooked by them and their family as well.

2.Memory loss
We all forget things occasionally but this is one of the most common and challenging problems of the geriatric population world over. If the person forgets names of people who she/he regularly interacts with or memory of very recent events then it could be concerning. 

Forgetting things like where did they place something or why did they enter the room is normal. But if they lose  the trail of a sentence during their speech or forget words it could be a sign of dementia.

3.Lack of care
A sudden drop in the way your ageing parents dress or take care of the home should call for your attention. If you notice a lack of interest in bathing, brushing, dressing neatly then the reason should be probed. Also, if your parents have been living by themselves, keep checking on the condition of the house, especially the bathroom and the kitchen. The reason for this decline could be that they have lost confidence to manage on their own and it’s time they moved in with you or arrange for an outside support to help them with their daily chores.

4.Loss of sensation
If your elderly parent is unable to taste excess salt in the food, or has hurt himself and isn’t feeling any pain it calls for serious attention. Some amount of sensory loss is normal and expected as you age but if this becomes a hindrance then it should be fixed. For instance, loss of hearing has to be fixed with a hearing aid even if it is only a partial loss. Loss of sensation of touch should be diagnosed by an expert and treated. If not it could lead to accidents as the person may use too hot water in the bath or touch a hot utensil in the kitchen causing a burn and not even be aware of it.
  
5.Loss of appetite
Again just like children are fussy about the foods they eat, elderly become picky about foods and their appetite changes and reduces from what it used to be. If this is due to dental problems such as caries or absence of teeth, it could be fixed and normal appetite can be restored. However if the loss of appetite is due to indigestion, inability to procure or cook foods of their liking or a general loss of interest due to loneliness or depression, these concerns need to be addressed separately. They may also have a lack of taste which may make all foods taste bland.

6.Mobility
One of the biggest challenges in the elderly is to prevent a fall.

Like children, the elderly are very prone to falls and with weak bones they are at higher risk of fractures and head injuries. If balance is not good, physiotherapy exercises can help to restore balance.

Home environment plays an important role in fall prevention.

7.Loss of control in urine and stool
Loss of control over urine is a common problem with the elderly.
 In men it can be due to prostate, and in women it can be due to stress incontinence. It can happen as a result of an illness like pneumonia as well. A quick discussion, during the doctor’s visit, on this is very important to prevent emergencies like acute retention of urine. Due to embarrassment your parents may not disclose this complaint to you, so look for signs such as soiled clothes or bed linen.

8.Making the home safe for the elderly:
Encourage them to wear shoes that fit properly and wear non-slip footwear while at home. Wipe spills immediately, do not leave it for later.

If possible, opt for non-polished floors. Leave on the lights in the bathroom and passages. Use door locks that can be opened from both sides in bathrooms and bedrooms.

Keep emergency phone numbers written in big normal fonts, and stick it near the phone. Keep a fire extinguisher handy at home.

Other useful advices to make the home safe:

  • Clean bathrooms regularly to avoid slipping.
  • Install and use hand rails in bathrooms.
  • Remove rugs to avoid tripping over.
  • Use bright lights.
  • Keep an emergency lamp near the bed.
  • In the kitchen keep kitchen floors uncluttered.
  • Stick ‘On’ and ‘Off’ position stickers on electrical appliances written in bright colors.
  • Keep sharp objects in one rack
  • Use labels for items that are kept in opaque boxes
  • Keep cleaning materials tightly closed and away from food materials
  • Use cotton clothing and aprons while cooking
  • Check expiry dates of packaged food.

There’s a lot you can do for the elders of your family and
community to make them feel comfortable, wanted and secure.

But the best thing you can give them is some of your time, spent meaningfully with them.

Source: http://www.thehealthsite.com/diseases-conditions/8-symptoms-in-old-age-that-warrant-attention/


Saturday, March 19, 2016

Hindu Festivals Part VI HOLI

Holi (pronunciation: /ˈhl/Sanskritहोली Holī) is a spring festival, also known as the festival of colours or the festival of sharing love. It is an ancient Hindu religious festival which has become popular with non-Hindus in many parts of South Asia, as well as people of other communities outside Asia.
It is primarily observed in IndiaNepal, and other regions of the world with significant populations of Hindus or people of Indian origin. In recent years the festival has spread to parts of Europe and North America as a spring celebration of love, frolic, and colours
Significance of Holi Festival

One of the major festivals of India, Holi is celebrated with enthusiasm and gaiety on the full moon day in the month of Phalgun which is the month of March as per the Gregorian calendar.

Holi festival is celebrated with various names and people of different states might be following different traditions. But, what makes Holi so unique and special is the spirit of it which remains the same throughout the country and even across the globe, wherever it is celebrated. 


Season of Bloom
Everybody gets delighted at the arrival of Holi as the season itself is so gay. Holi is also called the Spring Festival - as it marks the arrival of spring the season of hope and joy. The gloom of the winter goes as Holi promises of bright summer days. Nature too, it seems rejoices at the arrival of Holi and wears its best clothes. Fields get filled with crops promising a good harvest to the farmers and flowers bloom colouring the surroundings and filling fragrance in the air. 


How the festival is celebrated?

Holika dahan Days before the festival people start gathering wood and combustible materials for the bonfire in parks, community centers, near temples and other open spaces.


On the eve of Holi, typically at or after sunset, the pyre is lit, signifying Holika Dahan. The ritual symbolises the victory of good over evil. People sing and dance around the fire.

Play with colours
Holi frolic and celebrations begin the morning after the Holika bonfire. There is no tradition of holding puja (prayer), and the day is for partying and pure enjoyment. Children and young people form groups armed with dry colours, coloured solution, the means to fill and spray others with coloured solution (pichkaris), water balloons filled with coloured water, and other creative means to colour their targets.
Traditionally, washable natural plant-derived colours such as turmeric, neem, dhak, and kumkum were used, but water-based commercial pigments are increasingly used. All colours are used. Everyone in open areas such as streets and parks is game, but inside homes or at doorways only dry powder is used to smear each other's face. People throw colours and get their targets completely coloured up. It is like a water fight, but with coloured water. People take delight in spraying coloured water on each other. By late morning, everyone looks like a canvas of colours. This is why Holi is given the name "Festival of Colours".
Legends
A Hindu festival, Holi has various legends associated with it. The foremost is the legend of demon King Hiranyakashyap who demanded everybody in his kingdom to worship him but his pious son, Prahlad became a devotee of Lord Vishnu. Hiranyakashyap wanted his son to be killed. He asked his sister Holika to enter a blazing fire with Prahlad in her lap as Holika had a boon which made he immune to fire. Story goes that Prahlad was saved by lord himself for his extreme devotion and evil minded Holika was burnt to ashes, for her boon worked only when she entered the fire alone.

Since that time, people light a bonfire, called Holika on the eve of Holi festival and celebrate the victory of good over evil and also the triumph of devotion to god. Children take special delight in the tradition and this has another legend attached to it. It says that there was once an ogress Dhundhi who used to trouble children in the kingdom of Prithu. She was chased away by children on the day of Holi. Therefore, children are allowed to play pranks at the time of 'Holika Dahan'. 
Sources: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holi
            http://www.holifestival.org/holi-festival.html
        


Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life


        

                     

       Courtesy:Charlene DeCesare ,

Lifehack Expert since Nov, 2015

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath
Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” 
Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.


3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.


4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.


5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.


6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. 
Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!


7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.


8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.


9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.


10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.


11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.


12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.


13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.


14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.


15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.


16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.


17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.


18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.


19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.


20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”


21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!


22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.


23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.


24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.


25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.


26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.


27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.


28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.


29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.


30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.